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3 Ways to Transform Communication in Your Marriage by Yourself

According to the NIH, communication and conflict resolution are directly related to relationship well-being. And for the couples I see in my office, communication is by...

How to Calmly Deal with Conflict: Possibilities Amid Disagreements

The moving truck buzzed while we flew by cars waiting to exit the 8-lane freeway. "Hey, you were supposed to turn there! You don’t...

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Eat Nutritious Food, Less of It, and Live Longer

It’s been a longstanding trend: we expect to live longer lives than our parents. But now the tide is turning. Recent research suggests that if present trends continue young Americans (those born between 1964 and 1989) will die earlier than their nearest and dearest ancestors.

As a group, our young people are in poor physical health. We can track an increased incidence of chronic inflammation and metabolic syndrome (a cluster of markers including hypertension, obesity, and insulin resistance).

The Cycle Stops With You: 3 Ways to Stop Feeding Emotional Eating

Emotional eating is a concern of many women across the nation. It is no surprise with food being at the forefront of most gatherings, rewards, and commercials that we have such a fixation on food. For many women, the thought of not turning to food for comfort seems impossible.

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How to Calmly Deal with Conflict: Possibilities Amid Disagreements

The moving truck buzzed while we flew by cars waiting to exit the 8-lane freeway. "Hey, you were...

3 Ways to Transform Communication in Your Marriage by Yourself

According to the NIH, communication and conflict resolution are directly related to relationship well-being. And for the couples I see...

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Unadulterated Love: The 9 Rules of Joyful Sex

When you've felt the raw power of sexual joy there is never any going back to "blah."

Sex is often a mixed-up dance between two people. But sex begins with yourself; and ultimately, your sexual joy begins with your own relationship to something inside you. Sex and sexual dysfunction is 90% in your head. So when sex is off, either between you and yourself, or you and others, there is some examination that might need to take place. (I'm not a doctor, and I have no understanding of erectile disfunction or other medically related sexual issues.) With that, I've compiled a researched and observational guide to help guide your sexual happiness.

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The Financial Hazards Of Emotional Investing

John was a successful dentist who managed his own money his entire life and prided himself on his financial acumen. When he retired, he saw no reason to change. Instead of kicking back and enjoying a well-earned life of leisure, John became not only financially invested in the markets, but emotionally invested as well; much to the detriment of his personal life—and his money.

John would wake up early and seclude himself downstairs with three screens. He would look at research before the market opened. He would be grouchy when the market closed if he hadn’t done well that day. Even if he went on vacation, he was tethered to Wall Street.

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Parenting is Tough

9 Things Your Babysitter Wants You to Know

You need a reliable babysitter for date night. Should be easy peasy, right? The truth is that this relationship is a two-way street and sometimes parents, unknowingly, can make the job harder or less satisfying than it needs to be. We reached out to our babysitter network to find out what they love (and loathe) about minding our kids.

Be Ready

You made reservations and even put mascara on, but your date night checklist is not done. First, tell the kids how you expect them to behave for the sitter. When she arrives, act excited to set the tone.

5 Essential Canning and Pickling Tips

I have a whole shelf’s worth of books on the art of preserving—from the "Ball Complete Book of Home Preserving" to Sandor Katz's "Wild Fermentation." All of them attentively detail the equipment, ingredients, safety measures and mechanics of food preservation. But not one of them reveals how an everyday cook can reasonably manage the workload of canning in the home kitchen.

After 15 years as a devoted food preservationist, I can tell you that things can very quickly get out of hand, even small-batch canning. What with washing and sanitizing jars, peeling and cutting fruits and vegetables, and timing the steady boil in the giant cauldron called a canner, it's always more involved than I remember.

Sex Q&A: Vaginal Tightening Creams and Ways to a Better Orgasm

Sex and relationship expert, Dr. Trina Read, is ready to answer your questions.

I want to try a vaginal tightening cream, but wanted to make sure they work before buying.

The short answer is "no" they don’t work. It’s just something else in a long list of things to make women feel insecure about their sexuality.

Here’s what vaginal tightening creams do to make you believe they work. Some numb the vagina making it so you don’t become fully aroused. That means you’re less lubricated causing more friction which can make it feel tighter, but also more uncomfortable.

3 Ways Our Own Goals Make Us Unhappy

Setting goals for ourselves is what keeps us moving forward. It’s what creates innovation, growth, and is the reason we pursue anything new. We set a goal and work to reach it. In and of itself, goal-setting is positive. But if we don’t fully understand all that is involved in creating and achieving our goals we can easily sabotage the process.

Fortunately, this is a mindset that we can change, and here are 3 key points to remember:

5 Tips to Help Young People Avoid Having Bad Sex

A new study published by the National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles has found that a shockingly high number of young men and young women experience some form of sexual difficulty.

From performance anxiety to difficulty reaching climax to pain during sex, over one-third of the men and nearly half of the women surveyed said they suffer from some sexual issue. And these are not older people—the group surveyed was between the ages of 16-21!

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Put Some Self-Esteem Into Your Relationship

Confidence in the goodness of another is good proof of one's own goodness.” ~ Michel De Montaigne

Many relationships suffer from a lack of self-esteem. A relationship’s self-esteem is connected to that of the partner’s, but it also has a life of its own. Genuine esteem is founded in the courage to see oneself truly, both the positive and negative aspects of who we are and how we function and malfunction in the world.

Attention: A Caregiver Near You Needs Help

Caregivers may not say it out loud, but they are communicating their need for help in their absence from the activities they used to be involved with or by the lack of phone calls, text messages, and tweets you no longer receive from them. Perhaps the last time you saw your friend in the grocery store there was a brief moment when she was fighting back tears.

Make Peace With Your Dream

Often, when we are told to "make peace with" something, it’s in a challenging context, as in "make peace with" your current weight, bank account, relationship, etc. And indeed, the only way to move forward toward whatever your desired goal is to first make peace with wherever you’re at in that journey. So yes, by all means, do that!

However, the one "make peace with" we rarely think about is to "make peace with your dreams." Too often, we dismiss our dreams and desires as too far-fetched, impossible, unreachable, and we stop before we start. Or we start, and then halfway there we figure, "Oh, this is ridiculous; I’ll never make it" so we give up on our dreams.

Help Your Child Build Healthy Reward Pathways in the Brain

When you reward bad behavior, you literally wire your child’s brain to repeat the bad behavior. No parent intends to do that, but it happens so easily. When you know how, you will reward only good behavior, and give your child a good start.

Imagine that your child grabs a cookie from someone. You tell them it’s not nice, but you let them keep the cookie. "Just this once."

A young brain learns from the cookie more than your words. Cookies trigger dopamine, the brain’s reward chemical. Dopamine paves a neural pathway that turns on more of the good feeling in similar future circumstances. That wires a brain to expect grabbing to get rewards. Each reward strengthens the pathway.
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Life Lessons: Why Promises Are Made and Broken

In 1965 I was 9 years old when my grandfather was moved to a nursing home. The massive wooden door of the old mansion-turned-institutional care facility always opened with a soiled sense of despair. While visiting her father over the years, my mother would softly sob: "Promise never to put me in a nursing home."

As a young child eager to please her mother, I promised.

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6 Gluten-Free Japanese Rice Dishes

These days, many are choosing a gluten-free lifestyle. But artificially contrived gluten-free products such as pasta, bread and baked goods can be disappointing. With its rich tradition of rice-based dishes, Japanese cuisine beautifully suits a gluten-free diet. Here are six delicious, easy to prepare, gluten-free Japanese rice dishes.

Stir-fried Rice with Hijiki and Parmesan

Stir-fried rice dishes make use of one- or two-day-old rice and other ingredients that happen to be on hand. This recipe is one I invented for American audiences to showcase hijiki, my favorite Japanese seaweed. Rich in dietary fiber and minerals, it also has a pleasantly crunchy texture and tastes of the sea. It uses the black hijiki along with Parmesan cheese, cilantro and ginger.

Making The Perfect Centerpiece Roast

These days, many of us are weighing the impacts and ethics of meat eating in general. So the prospect of buying and cooking a holiday roast is more daunting than ever. Here's a guide to navigating today’s meat markets and making a centerpiece roast worth celebrating.

Source Quality Beef

The single most important decision to make is what beef to buy, because flavor is largely predetermined before the roast goes into the oven. Quality beef is strongly correlated with the cattle’s quality of life: Did it live on pasture, even during its final 120 days eating grasses? Did it live without stress—especially right before slaughter?

5 Mediterranean-Style Broccoli Recipes

Broccoli is a vegetable that makes for a wonderful salad. Its bright green color and crisp-tender texture can be appealing if cooked properly.

Cooking broccoli properly might seem like a no-brainer, but many people do not do so. Broccoli, and all cruciferous vegetables, must not be overcooked, otherwise chemicals in the plant break down and release sulfurous compounds, such as ammonia and hydrogen sulfide, and interact with the chlorophyll in the plant, which cause the broccoli to turn an unappetizing brownish-grey color and have a very unpleasant smell.

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Dr. Karen Sherman

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Through her many years as a psychologist, author and seminar leader, Dr. Noelle C. Nelson has empowered countless individuals to be happier, healthier and more successful at work, home and in relationships.

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Dr. Trina has one mission: To show people how to have fun and meaningful sex without an orgasm. She believes only with sex-positive knowledge can someone make an empowered choice and thus create a richer, more fulfilled sex life.