The Sexpert

Classical Greek philosophers felt a person’s head and body were two separate entities. Although modern medicine would vehemently oppose this idea, I believe modern medicine never researched a super-busy-multi-tasking-woman (SBMTW) trying to calm herself down before sex, especially one during the holidays.

I have a love/ hate relationship with the holidays. I love to get together with family and friends, listen to holiday tunes, see the beautiful decorations, and smell wonderful cooking. I really hate how it messes up my already busy schedule.

From my own experience and talking to my gal pals, our three biggest concerns during the holidays are: headaches (probably from clenched jaws while

Who initiates sex in your relationship? Couples surveyed said ideally they would like both partners to initiate equally. Yet people tend to attract their polar opposite. As a result one person will be more assertive and tend to do the bulk of bedroom initiation. Couples settle in and unwittingly form an "Initiator"/ "Pursued" bonding-pattern.

Taking a man to watch a gruesome horror movie will not elicit as much squirming as speaking to him about male "plumbing" problems. Yet with the arrival of Viagra and its infamous "I did it my way" commercials, men’s sexual concerns are finally coming out of the closet. Moreover, Dr. Ian Kern wrote "She Comes First" and based a career in sexual therapy on the fact that he once suffered from premature ejaculation.

I was at a friend’s house for supper when their teenage boy decided to embarrass his parents.

"Yeah, I wish my parents would keep it down when they are having sex,” he said. To which I replied, "Don’t you think they deserve some fun too?" Mortified, his red-faced parents pretended not to hear.

Jack and Jill are not happy with their sex life. After an initial year of hot, wild, bunny-like mayhem, their sex life turned into...

A while back, I met with a couple that was in a pretty bad sexual rut. They’d been married for fifteen years and had two teenage kids. I met with them separately to take a sex history. It turns out both were masturbating almost daily, at about the same time in the evening, without their partner knowing what the other was doing. To top it off, neither wanted their partner to know what they were up to, as they were too ashamed of their behavior.