Tag: ask

Just the other day, my client who’s not in therapy for marital problems, brought up a different topic of concern. She mentioned that something seemed fishy about her husband’s behavior, which had been going on for a few weeks. They’ve been married for over 10 years and she knows his patterns very well, but something just didn’t feel right.

Specifically, she felt that he didn’t display his typical, affectionate and fun self. I asked her if she talked to him about it. She said, "Well, no." I responded, "Because…?" And her response was simply, "I thought I was just imagining things, and I guess I was just waiting for it to change. But it hasn’t."