Tag: bed

Expressions like "sleeping together," or "going to bed" imply sex. But let's talk about what you are actually sleeping on—your mattress. It's one of the most important purchases you'll make together. After all, you spend a third of your life in bed and the quality of your sleep can profoundly affect your everyday mood and long-term health. However, for many just-hitched couples (heck, for most couples), mattress shopping can be a mystery. It's not an easy item to comparison-shop and who has tons of experience buying mattresses anyways? The good news is, this is one item on your shopping list you can take lying down!

In my private practice, I’ve often heard couples state that they never argue—and they make this statement proudly. When I hear this proclamation, I see a "red flag" being waved in front of me. The truth is that couples are going to have conflicts—it’s to be expected in your relationship. So, when there are no arguments in your marriage, it may very well be that the two of you don’t feel comfortable enough with one another to have a disagreement.

As a relationships expert in the public eye, I see one of my roles as helping to enlighten you as to the accurate information about you and your mate. When you have solid information, you’re better equipped to have the best relationship possible.

Men say they want the truth… but do they really? Men have super-shaky egos when it comes to bedroom critiques. This is probably why too many women never take off their, "You’re-great-in-bed-honey-happy-face" mask.

The realist in me appreciates the fact that you men have been unfairly socialized to be the initiator and choreographer of sex, yet something has to give. Great sex hinges on being able to have an open and honest communication with your partner.