Tag: change behavior

How should you approach the topic of changing your spouse’s behavior? Well, ultimatums do not work! If you are too vague your husband or wife might not understand your intention. Nagging never works! Talking negatively about your spouse's behavior in a joking fashion in front of others is definitely a no no! So what to do?

Be a friend. See it from your spouse’s perspective. Have they been doing it for years? Are they as unhappy about the behavior as you are and know they need to change?