Tag: chemistry

Since many readers will, I assume, be interested in what creates monogamy, and since this often proves to be a highly challenging aspect of marriage, it's definitely worth taking some time to understand what influences people to conform with this expectation or not.

Let me just state it plainly: No one will remain sexually "faithful" unless it fits in with his or her own hierarchy of values. In other words, there's no such thing as being true to this woman or that man . . . only to one's own values.

What determines the chemistry between you and your spouse? Who has not said, "They have good chemistry together?" We hear it so often that it seems trite. Typically, we direct that remark towards a couple that looks mismatched to our judgment. We ask ourselves, "What do they see in each other?" Our usual answer is that their chemistry is just right. This is often our only way of reconciling the force of attraction between these two.

However, what if the concept of chemical attraction has a direct biological basis? New research is revealing that it does and many of those reasons had not been previously expected or explored.

You're out with a couple of friends having a good time… and your future spouse walked into the room and your heart skipped a beat. Everything around you faded into the background and the only thing that existed was them.

You muster up the courage to introduce yourself and a fairy tale relationship is born. All that’s left is moonlit walks on the beach, rose petals sprinkled around the bedroom and making passionate love each morning as the gentle breeze blows through the windows and the birds sing pleasantly outside.