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"We must give more in order to get more. It is the generous giving of ourselves that produces the generous harvest.” ~ Orison Marden

One of the saddest of all statistics on our collective sexual health is about how little time we spend on it, with the average sexual act lasting only 7-12 minutes.

Sexual foreplay is the moments when the arousal mechanism in the limbic brain gets to align with the blood flow to the genitals. Let me just say one thing about this phase of intimacy—more is better. This is what I say to customers who write in or call and tell me that the lube didn’t work. When I ask them how they used it, and the response is I put it on and then had sex, I have to explain the limitations of even the best lube in the world.

"We must give more in order to get more. It is the generous giving of ourselves that produces the generous harvest." ~ Orison Swett Marden

  It is not uncommon for me to get a random text from my kids’ teenaged friends inquiring about sexual issues.

They are important questions that, even with as few characters as these mini communications provide, are laced with anxiety and edged with a bit of desperation. They don’t know the terms for problems like premature ejaculation or inability to orgasm, and they think they are the only ones that have these problems.