Tag: friendship

“Love and relationship is meant to be more than a safety net, that companion. A pet can provide that. A lover will give you more.”

How can we increase the possibility of developing more within a growing relationship and not just a casual approach to a marriage that leads no where? We visualize this false perception of being a couple after a few dates when our partner has a completely different idea of what dating means.

We all want transparency. Guessing games become filled with unnecessary anxieties about where we fit within the relationship.

No one goes through divorce school when they’re getting married. We barely go through marriage school, never mind parenting school while interviewing caterers or picking out flowers for the wedding reception! So when a family falls apart and divorce is imminent, it can be very upsetting. And when divorce is unavoidable because you didn’t have a say in the decision, and you’re still in love with your partner, it is most certainly devastating. It completely rocks your world.

German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche once said, "It's not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages." No doubt Neitzsche would be mortified to watch modern-day rom-coms where relationships between unlikely partners survive on the idea that "love will keep us together."

Love is important, yes. But love is no magic serum that turns everything to rainbows and sunshine. The real workings of great relationships are far more down-to-earth. They're built on respect and courtesy. If you're short on those things in your marriage, use the eight tips below to get back on track.

Nothing makes for a rich, fulfilling life quite like really great relationships. Our bonds with family members, friends, and (to a surprising extent) co-workers provide support, love, joy, companionship and foster personal growth. They are vital to our emotional and even physical health. But have you noticed the quality of your relationships might be declining? Have you asked yourself why? Chances are, you’re just not putting in the time and effort it takes.

If you want to build a lasting friendship, you must be a friend to yourself first. Many people are convinced they cannot have a friendship because of the way they think… literally. They are hampered by a negative mindset that they can’t believe in themselves or their ability to create and maintain a lasting relationship. It's time to shake away the self-doubt and embrace your burning truth.

What I refer to as a "friendship on fire" is about getting into your flow and being real.

Divorce happens. When close friends or family members separate, the divorce can cause a ripple effect of disruption. It's common that you and your spouse might not know what to do, or say, when it comes to interacting with the now-split couple. So here are some guidelines for navigating the murky waters of divorce while nurturing the relationships you care about.

First rule: Divorce etiquette will be tricky in proportion to our emotional reaction. Understandably we feel awkward with this change.

If your marriage is suffering, have you ever considered that friendship is lacking in your relationship?

A main component for a successful and fulfilling marriage is having a trusting friendship with your spouse. Like any deep friendship that you have with someone, it takes being a good friend to have a good friend. But why is it important that your spouse become your best friend?

Look at the close friendships you already have and their benefits. You value that you can be yourself, talk about anything without being judged, you have a lot in common, and if you have an argument, you’re less likely to shame or blame your friend.