Tag: negative comments

Snarky comments… you know, those snide or critical remarks that your spouse may say that hurt, put you on the defensive, and spoil your day? Exerted by one over the other, put-downs are a form of control and power, and carry the potential to do major damage to the marriage. However, the sooner this condescending behavior is addressed, the better likelihood that harmony can be restored to the marriage.

It all starts with understanding why your partner does it, which takes some investigation. Then, with a well-instituted game plan that both partners work at and commit to, the put-downs have the potential to be eradicated from the relationship!