Tag: ruin

None of us like to think about the harsh reality that someone who once loved us is now out to hurt and even punish us, but it’s true. Bitter, disgruntled and dismissed ex’s seek vengeance in any number of ways, including acts of violence, bullying, intimidation, harassment, passive aggressive behavior, silent indifference and using the children as pawns. Let’s look at four of the most common ways ex’s hurt and punish their former partners, why they do it and some positive alternatives to this kind of destructive behavior.

Spring cleaning coincides with the changing of the clocks; and so we need to reset our biological rhythms once again. During this yearly ritual most of us are polishing our mirrors and cleaning our windows to the world to shed more light on what’s happening in our lives. Oh, and don’t forget getting rid of the useless clutter to lighten up the home living space. These physical activities inevitably lead to spring cleaning our relationships, and if there is a marriage heading on a collision course this is an ideal time to stop and look at the big picture.