Tag: suffer

At this point we’ve all heard the alarming statistics and percentages of marriages ending in separation and divorce. And, although many couples try and resolve their issues through a number of outlets, sometimes separation and/or divorce happens. However, many couples that choose this route might have children, and those children do suffer. And the current modernist thinking about this, is well, the kids will be all right. A couple of tough months maybe, but hey, now they can have two Christmas’s, two birthdays, and two Thanksgivings. And the occasional blood feud between Mom and Dad over money, or time with the kids, or things allowed here but not allowed there—it’s just part of growing up.

As February 14th arrives, so does the long list of expectations that comes along with it. If you are one half of a couple, it’s crunch time to place flower orders and make reservations. If you haven't, then you may be dreading February 15th. But what if this year you choose to do things a little differently? What if, when you make your list of valentines, you include yourself this time? Showing yourself some love this Valentine’s Day could be your sweetest decision yet.

If your marriage is suffering, have you ever considered that friendship is lacking in your relationship?

A main component for a successful and fulfilling marriage is having a trusting friendship with your spouse. Like any deep friendship that you have with someone, it takes being a good friend to have a good friend. But why is it important that your spouse become your best friend?

Look at the close friendships you already have and their benefits. You value that you can be yourself, talk about anything without being judged, you have a lot in common, and if you have an argument, you’re less likely to shame or blame your friend.