Tag: understanding acceptance

The word acceptance is a loaded term that is used in all types of media. It is utilized in self-help circles and the psychotherapy world. It is tossed around on talk shows and in relationship books. Folks forever strive for this magical place, but they are generally unclear about the true definition of the word. As a culture we are addicted to reaching this mythical state of acceptance.

We falsely learn that acceptance is a state that you have to be worthy enough to reach. If you are not a good girl or boy, you will be forever ostracized from "acceptanceville." Instead of instilling good feelings, this search leads to decreased self-confidence, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression and feelings of hopelessness.