Tag: war of the roses

By the early ’80s, when I was in high school, divorce was so prevalent in my community that I’d ask new acquaintances, "Which parent do you live with?" The first great American wave of divorce that began in the ‘70s has now become as common as a high tide. A recent statistic shows that, in the U.S., 43 percent of first marriages end within 15 years. And, according to a 1998 University of Chicago national survey, nuclear families—which are married couples with children—make up only 26 percent of households, down from 45 percent in 1972.

Many of my contemporaries truly did not know what a good marriage was, though a bunch of us benefited from seeing good second marriages (showing that some parents learned from their mistakes).