The Sexpert

My introduction to the penis was unceremonious and pretty typical of a five-year-old: I will show you mine, neighbor boy, if you show me yours. By 13, my girlfriends and I successfully came up with all the ways to say penis from A to Z. I’m still trying to remember what we used for "x".

I have always been perplexed at why so many men do not get seduction. Subsequently, I went in search at what seduction education is...

Dr. Brian’s Point… "Women, they talk to much"
Trina, do you know why men prefer women with a raspy voice? Because men think it’s sexy, you say? Nuh-uh. It’s because we think she’s almost done yelling.
As a counsellor, I truly believe in the importance of communication in a relationship. However, sometimes you gals just talk things to death.

You are at a friend’s party having a great time. You look over and see your significant other laughing, kibitzing—and could that be flirting?—with someone else at the party. Do you:
(a) March over, wedging yourself in between your partner and the other person as you introduce yourself.
(b) Trust your partner will not take it past innocent

Sexual boredom is an epidemic in American. Couples come to me all the time not happy with their sex life. Their symptoms usually include: they get along well, they love each other, they want to make things work, however their sex life has become routine. There are many reasons for sexual boredom. For busy couples sexual boredom can manifest itself via

You really need to ask yourself: is it really a matter of you and your partner having different libidos or are "mismatched libidos" a convenient diagnosis to a deeper unresolved relationship issue?
According to Michele Weiner Davis’ book The Sex Starved Marriage, one in every three married couples struggles with problems associated

For two years, my personal coach enthusiastically recommended Dr. David Schnarch’s Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships as a staple in my sex library. Finally, fed up with my procrastination, he bought me a copy, which went promptly to the bottom of my ten-foot-high cue of on-the-go books.